About
500 years ago Shakespeare wrote the tragic play- ‘Hamlet’. His tragedy emanates
from major personality flaw- indecision. Indeed, the drama exaggerates the flaw
and the hero suffers a disaster. This malady is, however, more wide spread in
the current scenario. The acute competition & the rat race of the present
times have made fear of rejection more prominent than ever before. The gin of
fear is causing tremendous stress to most people. Four steps are listed below
that will help mitigating the fear which is main cause of indecision.
1. Always
remember that ‘left to themselves things go from bad to worse’. This you must
have experienced in life. So the very memory will wake you up from the slumber
and you will try to find a solution to the pending problem. Surely, you will
need to take decision about the action you need to take- sooner than later. Get
yourself motivated to ward off the indecision, thus.
2.
Whenever their some
important project, you may write down the problem in detail. Now, think about
the possible solutions. Then note down the pros and cons in respect of each. This
will help you to decide easier and faster. But never fear about wrong
decisions. Some decisions go wrong for everyone. The more you start taking
decisions, you will find that incidence of wrong decisions will reduce.
3. Your
indecision could also be because of lack of adequate knowledge about the
subject. Instead of worrying about what will happen if decision goes wrong, work
hard to gain the required knowledge about the subject. The moment you know the
subject well, you will find, it’s easier to decide. Fortunately, we have Google
and other sites which instantaneously provide sufficient information on any
subject.
4. And
if you are a habitual procrastinator, you must at once say to yourself that
your habit has let you down on earlier accessions. You have suffered earlier.
Therefore, you would not like to repeat your past mistakes. Procrastination is
a disease. It needs to be eradicated from life. Whatever is necessary; you must
do to cure the deadly disease.
There could be some more causes which each of us should
identify fo himself/herself and then work on these. But indecision should not
be allowed to hinder your progress.
Thanks for
reading.
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